Est. 1964 · Mumbai1964 – 2025 · every issue, digitised
Parsiana
The global Zoroastrian link medium
Zoroastrians Abroad

Gahanbar generosity

By Parinaz Gandhi · July 7-July 20, 2021
Happy to bond with co-religionists after a long hiatus, an estimated 188 Zoroastrians participated in the Maidhiayarem Gahanbar (thanksgiving gathering traditionally celebrated as a mid-winter festival in Iran nearly three months before the onset of Navroz according to the Fasli calendar, and now observed as the Dae mah gahanbar by Shahenshahis) in Houston on June 6, 2021. "We all did enjoy the event as it was our first in-person gathering," noted Aban Rustomji who had sponsored the jashan and lunch in memory of her husband Purvez, founder of Coating Industries, Inc who 10 years after his demise continues to be fondly remembered by the Zoroastrian Association of Houston (ZAH) as an "inspirational community member."
After attending the jashan at the Bhandara Atash Kadeh and partaking of the malido and nuts served in individual sized containers, the gathering moved to the Zoroastrian Heritage and Cultural Center. The enthusiastic volunteers had specially decorated the Hall with flowers and center pieces for the tables two days prior, the floral decorations being sponsored by Yasmin Medora, noted a report by Arzin Italia in the ZAH newsletter Manashni of June 2021.
Clockwise from top l: In Houston, Bhandara Atash Kadeh; Zoroastrian Heritage and
Cultural Center; religious fervor Photo: Persis Behramshaand feasting
Photo: Jasmine Mistry; Purvez and Aban Rustomji

ZAH chair Nozer Dungor welcomed everyone and thanked "Aban and family for sponsoring the gahanbar and for all they have done and continue to do for ZAH." Happy to see the community flourishing with "two generations of successful professionals since we started ZAH," Aban acknowledged that "families like mine have their children and grandchildren enjoying our ZAH Center. We gather to recognize the unique role that ZAH plays in our lives. We celebrate religious education leaders, social groups amongst us, and most importantly, our younger generation who are now professionals and already making notable contributions as leaders. We also celebrate all our donors, large and small, who step up to expand their levels of support to make dreams come true. And we commemorate the memory of individuals who are not with us but have nourished this establishment we have at ZAH." The assembly then enjoyed a scrumptious lunch of mutton dhansak with turkey kabobs and kachumber catered by chef Naushad Mehta of Cillie’s.

"A sponsor of a gahanbar bears the cost of food, Atash Kadeh use, ashodad for the priests and paper products, while malido, fruits, flowers and nuts are donated by other community members," Manashni editor Arnavaz Sethna clarified for Parsiana. Those attending have to pay a charge and the proceeds are given to ZAH towards general operating expenses. ZAH generally celebrates two gahanbars — one, Shahenshahi Dae mah gahanbar in early June and the second, Fasli Mehrgan festival in the first week of October.

When responding to queries from Parsiana, Aban shared vivid memories of "growing up in a small Quetta community… A fall gahanbar was a joyous affair where our priest Ervad Sohrabji Makujina would pray over a huge heap of dried fruits that the landowner Mehrwanji Irani would place right in the middle of the agiary. After the prayers were over, each family was given a large bag of dry fruits — almonds, walnuts, dates, raisins to take home, and as a young girl that left an indelible mark on me. Mehrwanji Irani was not by any means a wealthy man, but whatever he earned from the season, he was ready to share."
Bapsi Sidhwa: acclaimed author

Yet another event planned for the Houston community by The ZAH Library is a two-day gala on the weekend of October 1 and 2, 2021 to recognize "the wide range of talented authors in the Zoroastrian community in North America," wrote Jangoo Mistry in Manashni. On October 1, they propose to felicitate their renowned member-author Bapsi Sidhwa and in her presence institute the Bapsi Sidhwa Award for excellence in literature by a Zoroastrian author. "In recent years, a wide swath of Zoroastrian talent all over the world has emerged in fiction, non-fiction, cookbooks, children’s books and even poetry. And though there are numerous awards for writers that cover North America and outside," there is no exclusive award for Zoroastrian authors and hence a befitting trophy and cash award is being planned. The second day of the event will see authors in different genres being interviewed by moderators who will facilitate discussions on their work.

◆ ◆ ◆
One reader wrote
  • Our childhood experiences leave an indelible mark on us: Aban Rustomji has amply demonstrated that. Just wish to add that my husband is from Quetta and anything about that city, warms my heart.

    A reader · 7 July 2021
From the archive