“Madras musings”

A controversy is raging about Parsi girls marrying out of the community and want- ing to have navjotes performed for their children (fathered by non-Parsis). Per- sonally, I am against this custom, but what could I do, as my granddaughters are both married to non-Parsis? Well, times have changed is what they argue (and I cannot disown them!), so the next best thing is to keep quiet.

My very good friend Kersee Kabraji is taking a leading part in this debate. Everyone has the right to his own views. The reformists are for it while the orthodox are dead against it, caus- ing a split in our scientific religion. According to me the best solution would be to have two organizations so that followers can act according to their conscience. Let there be cordial-

ity between the two sides, though their ideologies may differ. There should not be any ill feelings or enmity and each should respect the other’s feel- ings. Going to the courts is not advis- able, for one party will not agree to a judgment which has gone against it.

In "Madras musings” (Parsiana, September 7, 2010), Zarin Mistry has beau- tifully traced the history of the commu- nity there. Mistry has long been a mem- ber of the Madras Parsi Association (Parsi Club) and is responsible for organizing community get-togethers on the last Sat- urday of every month. After each such meeting, where there is much camarade- rie, there is a dinner along with chhato pani (liquor). There are many hill sta- tions with bird and animal sanctuaries near Madras like Ooty and Kodaikanal, and Parsis should spend enjoyable holi- days there and see what Madras and the South can offer.

I am a senior citizen of the Madras community aged 94 years and have per- sonally seen how the Madras Parsis grew and prospered. We now number 240. If you want to meet yours truly, I am fea- tured on page 81 of the article surrounded by chairs (no, I am not the chairman!).

FIROZE K. TARAPORE Madras